LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Shower debate

Posted By Message
Pages: [1] 2

EricaAlt
LIF Adult

Member since 7/08

22665 total posts

Name:
Erica

Shower debate

So with this fun thing called Covid there are some days we're just home all day. My boys are 11 and 9.
So I told them since we didn't leave the house take a quick shower and don't worry about washing your hair.
DH says they should wash their hair. I don't wash mine everyday. I shower everyday and sometimes twice depending, but my hair I can go every other or every 2 sometimes.
He says guys wash their hair everyday.

If you have boys or just your DH do they wash their hair everyday?

Posted 1/24/21 1:32 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

w8andsee
LIF Adult

Member since 10/09

1193 total posts

Name:

Re: Shower debate

My boys wash their hair every other day.

Posted 1/24/21 1:36 PM
 

ali120206
2 Boys

Member since 7/06

17789 total posts

Name:

Shower debate

They do wash their hair every day. My older DS has thick hair and it gets an indent from his XBox headphones so he washes it. My younger DS really likes to take showers so he washes his hair too.

Posted 1/24/21 1:36 PM
 

BargainMama
LIF Adult

Member since 5/09

15657 total posts

Name:

Re: Shower debate

We all wash our hair everyday

Posted 1/24/21 1:38 PM
 

Momma2015
Mommax2

Member since 12/12

6655 total posts

Name:

Re: Shower debate

DH washes his hair every day. My son is under 2, but I don't give him a bath every day- every other day so he washes his hair then. Personally, I don't wash my hair every day- and not because of Covid and being home.

Message edited 1/24/2021 1:45:17 PM.

Posted 1/24/21 1:45 PM
 

NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09

54917 total posts

Name:
..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: Shower debate

It's actually bad to wash your hair every day- unless you have super oily hair.
My hair stylist said daily washing is one of the worst things you can do to dry the hell out of your hair and cause damage.
My hair is so dry and damaged I only wash it twice a week.

DH washes his every other day though- showers daily but washes his hair only on days he goes to the gym- which is every other day

Message edited 1/24/2021 1:49:37 PM.

Posted 1/24/21 1:48 PM
 

nycbuslady
LIF Adult

Member since 9/15

1063 total posts

Name:

Shower debate

All I could say is, if they manage to get in the shower, it's enough.

My daughter is 12. She's going to school on a hybrid schedule now. She will shower on a Friday morning for school. Then, if she doesn't have school on Monday, she won't shower again until Wednesday morning because she has school then -- 5 days later!! So, I'd be happy with your boys not washing their hair!

Posted 1/24/21 1:53 PM
 

MrsO
Big Brothers to Be

Member since 1/07

4520 total posts

Name:
Maureen

Re: Shower debate

If they shower they usually wash their hair. If they are home doing nothing I don't push the shower.

Posted 1/24/21 1:55 PM
 

oldtimerocknroll
LIF Adult

Member since 11/14

1656 total posts

Name:

Re: Shower debate

DH washes his hair every day. It gets oily otherwise. I shampoo my hair about twice a week. The other days, I sometimes rinse and condition, and I sometimes do nothing. My hair is thick and dry, so it does not need to be shampooed every day.

Posted 1/24/21 2:08 PM
 

EricaAlt
LIF Adult

Member since 7/08

22665 total posts

Name:
Erica

Re: Shower debate

Thanks all! So sounds like most men and boys do everyday. My DH is a contractor so has to wash everyday. Plus they do put product in their hair.

I did forget my 11 year old has to wash out the gel.

I don't wash my hair everyday and some days will just put a little conditioner in it.

Posted 1/24/21 2:14 PM
 

Funkybutt
LIF Adult

Member since 4/15

3049 total posts

Name:

Shower debate

Your kids take showers/baths everyday? I'm lucky if I remember to get my kid to shower once a week.

(When I had hair) - I washed it twice a week but I had curly hair and it didn't look greasy like straight thin hair can look.

Posted 1/24/21 2:33 PM
 

NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09

54917 total posts

Name:
..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: Shower debate

Posted by Funkybutt

Your kids take showers/baths everyday? I'm lucky if I remember to get my kid to shower once a week.

(When I had hair) - I washed it twice a week but I had curly hair and it didn't look greasy like straight thin hair can look.



My daughter used to be so bad with this. I'd have to fight her to take a shower and if I didn't push she'd go almost a week if it was up to her.
All of a sudden now that she is 10, she is suddenly more aware of her looks and grooming and she goes in faithfully every other day without me having to say a word because she tells me that her hair looks greasy if she goes any longer. (She inherited her dad's oily hair)

Posted 1/24/21 2:38 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
HAPPY

Member since 2/07

17374 total posts

Name:
EMBRACING CHANGE

Re: Shower debate

both DS and i have very thick, curly, dry hair. i wash my hair weekly. if i do it any more often i have hay and not hair.

DS has gone from washing daily to washing every other day and then back again... depending on his life and how long his hair is.

sounds like i was a lucky mom. DS always took a bath/shower without any issues as a kid. getting him to brush his teeth back then was another story all together! Chat Icon

Posted 1/24/21 3:21 PM
 

LSP2005
Bunny kisses are so cute!

Member since 5/05

19453 total posts

Name:
L

Re: Shower debate

Unless your hair is really oily, it is better to wash it every other day. But you should shower or bathe daily.

Posted 1/24/21 3:36 PM
 

lululu
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05

9508 total posts

Name:

Re: Shower debate

Posted by LSP2005

Unless your hair is really oily, it is better to wash it every other day. But you should shower or bathe daily.



My kids definitely don't bathe every day and they are 8 and 10. Until you hit puberty and/or start to have BO I don't really see why they should be bathing every day. Even for me, my skin gets so dry in the winter it can be unbearable. I am not sure why, if you aren't leaving the house and you don't smell you need to bathe every day as a 9 or 11 year old. I really think it also depends on how prone you are to oily skin/hair and body odor.

Posted 1/24/21 4:02 PM
 

NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09

54917 total posts

Name:
..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: Shower debate

Posted by lululu

Posted by LSP2005

Unless your hair is really oily, it is better to wash it every other day. But you should shower or bathe daily.



My kids definitely don't bathe every day and they are 8 and 10. Until you hit puberty and/or start to have BO I don't really see why they should be bathing every day. Even for me, my skin gets so dry in the winter it can be unbearable. I am not sure why, if you aren't leaving the house and you don't smell you need to bathe every day as a 9 or 11 year old. I really think it also depends on how prone you are to oily skin/hair and body odor.



True. When DD had eczema we were told bathing daily was a no no. It's very drying to the skin if you have dry skin issues etc

Posted 1/24/21 4:04 PM
 

Sash
Peace

Member since 6/08

10312 total posts

Name:
fka LIW Smara

Re: Shower debate

My son goes into the shower everyday, whether he washes his @ss or hair is questionable. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/24/21 4:11 PM
 

PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!

Member since 5/11

7612 total posts

Name:
Momma <3

Shower debate

My DS showers daily, but washes his hair infrequently. He hates water in his eyes so getting him to wash his hair has always been a struggle. He literally wear goggles in the shower/bath when we make him soap up his hair.

Posted 1/24/21 4:32 PM
 

EricaAlt
LIF Adult

Member since 7/08

22665 total posts

Name:
Erica

Re: Shower debate

Posted by Sash

My son goes into the shower everyday, whether he washes his @ss or hair is questionable. Chat Icon Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Good point! They do take long showers and sometimes when I yell... been in there long enough, time to get out.
I hear... but I haven't soaped yet!

Ugh! I don't even want to know. Chat Icon

Posted 1/24/21 4:39 PM
 

Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

Member since 7/06

27915 total posts

Name:

Re: Shower debate

Both DH and my DS (7) wash their hair every time in the shower.

ETA - This time of year DS showers every other day but in the warmer months, he sweats like a pig so he showers every day.

Message edited 1/24/2021 4:42:19 PM.

Posted 1/24/21 4:41 PM
 

FirstMate
My lil cowboy

Member since 10/10

7789 total posts

Name:

Re: Shower debate

They wash their hair everytime they bathe. That is not necessarily every day. Meaning my kids. My DH washes his hair every day.

Posted 1/24/21 4:42 PM
 

FirstMate
My lil cowboy

Member since 10/10

7789 total posts

Name:

Re: Shower debate

Posted by Sash

My son goes into the shower everyday, whether he washes his @ss or hair is questionable. Chat Icon Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon My older son is the worst! My DH threatens to sniff test him LMAO

Posted 1/24/21 4:43 PM
 

NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09

54917 total posts

Name:
..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: Shower debate

Posted by Sash

My son goes into the shower everyday, whether he washes his @ss or hair is questionable. Chat Icon Chat Icon



OMG Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/24/21 4:55 PM
 

JennP
LIF Adult

Member since 10/06

3986 total posts

Name:
Jenn

Re: Shower debate

DS showers daily but I have to remind him to wash his hair. He probably only does it a couple of times a week. But his hair is very thick and on the longer side so he probably finds it a hassle. I don't push it. I just smell him periodically lol.

Posted 1/24/21 7:58 PM
 

MissJones
I need a nap!

Member since 5/05

22132 total posts

Name:

Shower debate

DS is nine and he doesn't wash his hair every day. I don't wash MINE everyday, lol

Posted 1/24/21 8:12 PM
 
Pages: [1] 2
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Please settle this debate- Shower related Beachgirl14 12/4/15 53 Families Helping Families ™
Books instead of cards at shower debate jennielee15 3/21/13 25 Pregnancy
Need help with Baby shower invite wording Dani00518 5/31/05 6 Families Helping Families ™
Baby Shower in Times Square Disneygirl 5/23/05 1 Pregnancy
WHo is throwing you your shower? MrsR 5/17/05 13 Pregnancy
my shower turned out awesome!!!!!! antoinette 5/16/05 11 Pregnancy
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 769595 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows