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Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

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Melbernai
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Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

I think Emily is having a really hard time with me going back to work.

It almost makes me wish that I had a year-round job so that I didn't have to put her through this.

She has already switched her schedule around os that she's waking up earlier and can see me before I leave. Yesterday she woke up at 6am. I leave at 6:15 and when she saw me get my things to leave she just started crying so bad and saying Momma Momma over and over again.

Then last night she woke up at 11pm. Dh went in there bt she was just crying and calling me so bad so I went in....and she ended up being awake for an hour just clinging to me and not letting me put her down.

She started crying at 4:45 am this morning --- and said my name but then just wimpered and went back to sleep.

Maybe it's her teeth although I would have thought that it would hurt them more before they get the tooth and not after. I think it is because I went back to work.

It makes me so sad to think that I'm making her upset. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 5:56 AM
 
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I hope she is better today. I am sure ein time, it will get better. Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 6:30 AM
 

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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

Chat Icon I know this must be hard for both of you. I can't even imagine! Hang in there, it has to get better!Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 6:44 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

It's hard... Alex did the same thing when I went back to work. She kept waking up and crying and wouldn't let DH calm her... she only wanted me and clinged to me like a little monkey. But within a few weeks she adapted, and now our time together is soooooooo special... it will get better, I promise Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 9:00 AM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

We're going through the same thing and I stay home with her. I literally can't put her down without her screaming, she won't go in the high chair, sleep time is a disaster. Don't feel like it's your fault at all. I think it's just a phase for the age they are but I know it's still hard.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm sure she'll adapt to her new routine and be all smiles again in no time.

Posted 9/7/06 9:50 AM
 

IrishTracy
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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon It must be so hard. I couldn't imagine. It can be teething. she could be getting more that you haven't noticed yet!!

Posted 9/7/06 9:54 AM
 

ARIELSMOM
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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

It does get easier... Hang in there...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 10:26 AM
 

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I'm sure it will get better soon!

Posted 9/7/06 10:31 AM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

Awwww - im sorry - its a transition period for them as it is for you: hug: Chat Icon Chat Icon It will get better soon!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 2:39 PM
 

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Posted 9/7/06 2:44 PM
 

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Posted 9/7/06 3:12 PM
 

jenny
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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

Hang in there. I am sure it's due to both the change in schedule and she is probably getting more teeth.Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 3:19 PM
 

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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

Heartbreaking Chat Icon Hang in there, its so hard, I know, but she'll adjust. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 9/7/2006 4:46:18 PM.

Posted 9/7/06 4:46 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

Oh poor Emily...she will get used to you working...Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 4:59 PM
 

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I feel so bad!!!!Chat Icon
Poor Emily, Poor YOU!
I'm sure she will get the hang of your new schedule soon...
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Posted 9/7/06 5:07 PM
 

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Posted 9/7/06 5:10 PM
 

luvmiboy
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Re: Seperation Anxiety is bad right now...

Steven is going through the same thing this week. The last two nights he woke up at least six times. All he wants to do is lay there and hold my hand!!!!!

Posted 9/7/06 8:06 PM
 

04bride
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Posted 9/7/06 8:21 PM
 
 

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