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Did you have children, or were you expecting children at the age of 31

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yes 159 56.58%
no 122 43.42%
 

Question about age for having children

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ali120206
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Question about age for having children

I had my first at 34 and my second at 36.

I don't think my school had gifted programs - I was in accelerated/honors programs.

Highest level of education - MBA.

Posted 8/3/16 10:07 AM
 

ohbaby08
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Question about age for having children

Had first child at 29. BA in English. No gifted program.

Posted 8/3/16 10:12 AM
 

eroxgirl
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Rebecca

Re: Question about age for having children

No, I was expecting my first at 32. She was born after I turned 33. I had my second at 35.

ETA: I have a bachelors degree and I was in the gifted program when I was in elementary/junior high school.

Message edited 8/3/2016 10:24:35 AM.

Posted 8/3/16 10:23 AM
 

imyself

Member since 10/06

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me

Re: Question about age for having children

first child was born before I was 31.
not in gifted and talented
I have a bachelors degree.

Posted 8/3/16 10:24 AM
 

2girlsforme
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XXXXXXXXX

Re: Question about age for having children

First child at 31, second at 36
JD
Honors/Accelerated classes (Catholic school)

Posted 8/3/16 10:30 AM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

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Ang

Question about age for having children

i was 32 when Hailey was born and 35 when Jillian was born

I got my BS at 30, no GT program

Posted 8/3/16 10:47 AM
 

ourlivesstartnow2012
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Question about age for having children

Had our first at 30, having our second at 33
Only had HS diploma with some college when LO was born
After LO, acquired Associates
Not in G&T

BTW, we have some SMARTY pants in LIF...I like it!

Posted 8/3/16 10:51 AM
 

shapla79
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Re: Question about age for having children

I already had two kids by 31 and a third after that age. No gifted program (didn't exist in my school district), and I have a doctorate (Ed.D.).

Posted 8/3/16 10:58 AM
 

Maybe-Baybe
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My only Sunshine

Re: Question about age for having children

Posted by Sparrow

Are we calling honors classes/AP as gifted or strictly "gifted programs"?





I'm curious about this as well. By definition, shouldn't the gifted and talented pool be fairly small? It doesn't make sense that most people are gifted and talented. UNLESS, there happens to be a strong correlation between being gifted and talented and being an LIF member Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/3/16 11:03 AM
 

melbalalala
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Re: Question about age for having children

I had my first child at 32. I have a BA and an MBA, I was in all honors classes in junior high/high school, not sure if that counts as a gifted program

Posted 8/3/16 11:05 AM
 

beachbabe
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Question about age for having children

Had my 1st at 29, and 2nd at 31

I have a BS in Accounting

I don't think my school had a gifted program, I'm not sure

Posted 8/3/16 11:09 AM
 

NoPlaceLikeHome
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Re: Question about age for having children

Posted by Maybe-Baybe

Posted by Sparrow

Are we calling honors classes/AP as gifted or strictly "gifted programs"?





I'm curious about this as well. By definition, shouldn't the gifted and talented pool be fairly small? It doesn't make sense that most people are gifted and talented. UNLESS, there happens to be a strong correlation between being gifted and talented and being an LIF member Chat Icon Chat Icon



I feel like there was a drama thread regarding this many moons ago Chat Icon

Posted 8/3/16 11:43 AM
 

caps612
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Re: Question about age for having children

Had my first at 33, I have a BS and my CPA.

Posted 8/3/16 11:52 AM
 

MrsO
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Maureen

Re: Question about age for having children

No
BBA in Accounting and no gifted program

Posted 8/3/16 12:16 PM
 

evrythng4areason
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Kayla

Re: Question about age for having children

Posted by Maybe-Baybe

Posted by Sparrow

Are we calling honors classes/AP as gifted or strictly "gifted programs"?





I'm curious about this as well. By definition, shouldn't the gifted and talented pool be fairly small? It doesn't make sense that most people are gifted and talented. UNLESS, there happens to be a strong correlation between being gifted and talented and being an LIF member Chat Icon Chat Icon



I should have been more specific, but yes, I was looking for individuals who participated in more traditional gifted ed programs (pull-out, grade-skipping, acceleration, etc.). Honors classes are not generally considered to be gifted programs, and AP courses are a gray area.

For example, the district I grew up in had the following:

A pull-out program for grades 4-6 that had less stringent acceptance rates.
An accelerated program in grades 7-10 that accepted approximately 3-6% of the grade into the program.

Posted 8/3/16 12:20 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Question about age for having children

Posted by NoPlaceLikeHome

Posted by Maybe-Baybe

Posted by Sparrow

Are we calling honors classes/AP as gifted or strictly "gifted programs"?





I'm curious about this as well. By definition, shouldn't the gifted and talented pool be fairly small? It doesn't make sense that most people are gifted and talented. UNLESS, there happens to be a strong correlation between being gifted and talented and being an LIF member Chat Icon Chat Icon



I feel like there was a drama thread regarding this many moons ago Chat Icon



LOL I vaguely remember that.
But I think it was more drama because the poster was looking for school districts that had "gifted" programs for her unborn and yet to be conceived child, because said child was guaranteed to be super smart because her and her DH were both mensa level. Or something like that
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Posted 8/3/16 12:23 PM
 

evrythng4areason
And then there were 4

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Kayla

Question about age for having children

So out of the people who posted, it looks like about 34% of people who typed a response participated in gifted programs (which is much higher than you would typically expect).

However, if you compare it to the number of the people who voted in the poll, that percentage drops to 24% (which is still quite high).

Posted 8/3/16 12:30 PM
 

mommy2B3
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M

Re: Question about age for having children

I'm 29, and I have 4 kids. I completed my BA and started slowly doing my masters (I'm a SAHM). I was in gifted and talented starting in 5th grade. I did AP and honors all through highschool.

Posted 8/3/16 12:30 PM
 

pnbplus1
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Mommy

Re: Question about age for having children

Did you have children, or were you expecting your first child, at the age of 31?

No

Level of education: Doctorate

Gifted ed as a child: yes

Posted 8/3/16 12:37 PM
 

MCD0524
LIF Adult

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Question about age for having children

My first was born at 31. I did have two miscarriages at 30.
I have a BA in psychology.
No gifted program.

Posted 8/3/16 12:45 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: Question about age for having children

Posted by evrythng4areason

I'm doing an interesting project for one of my summer classes, and it led to an interesting insight about the age at which individuals have children.

For the purposes of this poll, 31 is the magic number.

Did you have children, or were you expecting your first child, at the age of 31?

If you could also respond with your level of education, and whether or not you participated in a gifted education program as a child, that would also be an interesting bit of information to include (it's what my *limited* research was based on).



When I was younger, I expected to have children by 31, but I did not. I had my first at 33.

Level of educ - post-grad (MBA)
Yes, I was in a gifted and talented class in school

Posted 8/3/16 1:03 PM
 

VeeJay
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Re: Question about age for having children

I answered yes. My plan was to have my kids by 30, but fertility issues led me down a different path. I had my first at 34 and my second at 36.
I have a bachelors degree.

Posted 8/3/16 1:15 PM
 

Salason

Member since 6/05

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Re: Question about age for having children

Yes first child at 30. Gifted program as a child and honors in HS and college. Have a BSBA

Posted 8/3/16 1:16 PM
 

LSP2005
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L

Re: Question about age for having children

Posted by NoPlaceLikeHome

Posted by Maybe-Baybe

Posted by Sparrow

Are we calling honors classes/AP as gifted or strictly "gifted programs"?





I'm curious about this as well. By definition, shouldn't the gifted and talented pool be fairly small? It doesn't make sense that most people are gifted and talented. UNLESS, there happens to be a strong correlation between being gifted and talented and being an LIF member Chat Icon Chat Icon



I feel like there was a drama thread regarding this many moons ago Chat Icon

yes there was, I think Nell was right. I parsed out elementary g and t from high school honors and ap classes as I did both. There were 110 kids in my high school class, but in elementary school only 10 of us were in the g and t program. There were about twenty kids in he different honors classes and then most of the kids in honors also ended up in the AP classes. In my hs in order to do AP calc or AP foreign language you first had to take honors level classes in the younger grades.

Message edited 8/3/2016 1:27:48 PM.

Posted 8/3/16 1:25 PM
 

cds58019
The loves of my life :)

Member since 6/08

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Candice

Re: Question about age for having children

I had all 3 of my kids by the time I was 26, I have an associates degree and I was in the gifted program in elementary school.

Posted 8/3/16 1:38 PM
 
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