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MrsMessina
Thankful for our miracles!

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Monday update: It's over...

This mornings sonogram showed no heartbeats. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon My husband and are completely devastated and heartbroken. I don't know where we go from here... Maybe my role in life is to always be an aunt. Chat Icon
I have to have a D&C done to see if it was genetic this time... Chat Icon I feel so lost. Chat Icon

Sunday:
Thank you everyone.

My parents came home today. My mom knew I had an appointment yesterday, so I had to tell her over the phone, but seeing them and discussing everything was so much worse. Watching both of them cry because they are helpless to do anything about this.... It's something I pray I never have to go thru again. They are mourning their grandchildren they never met and feel hopeless because they dont know what they can say or do to help us.
I feel numb. I hate the world right now. I have never felt so robbed, angry, sad, hopeless or numb... All at once. I have no idea how we pick up the pieces of our hearts and even attempt to move on... Or if we even have it in us anymore. I just don't understand....
The thought of having a d&c done makes me sick... And scares me. why are we going through this? Why do people who don't deserve children get to have them, yet this is the farthest we've ever gotten, only to have them taken away? I can't make sense of any of this...

Monday:
Went to Dr. B's this morning w/ DH. He took the day off, and thank God he did b/c I ended up having to have another sono (w/ Dr. Pilliteri) to "confirm" Dr. B's findings, at which time I completely fell apart. Chat Icon Dr. B wouldn't let us see the screen... Dr. Pilliteri had it facing out and it was right there. Chat Icon
I got immunological bloodwork @ Dr. B's office and he made time to talk to DH & I about our next steps over the next couple of weeks.
He wants me to have the D&C done to see if it was something genetic. He feels strongly that it is, and I can't help but think there are 2 of them...so how could it be both... and if it is, what are the odds of most of our frozen embryos being genetically abnormal? Chat Icon
He also wants me to have an MRI of my uterus done. He said there is a "dimple" at the top and wants to rule that out as an option as well. Chat Icon There was talk of the possibility of cutting my uterus... not an option I will want to go with. Chat Icon B/t those 2 things and the immunological testing he is hoping we get some answers...
I'm usually a glass 1/2 full type of person, but I can't even begin to think about the future right now. Chat Icon I wanted these Chat Icon Chat Icon to be our future... Chat Icon
So tomorrow I have to go to get pre-surgical testing done at Good Sam and then have a D&C on Wednesday, at some point. They won't tell me when until somewhere b/t 4-10 tomorrow. Chat Icon This all just sucks... Chat Icon

Message edited 9/19/2011 4:53:04 PM.

Posted 9/17/11 1:44 PM
 
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Smalls72
OMG, time is going way to fast

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Bali

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Posted 9/17/11 1:47 PM
 

LadyBug1209
Mommy to FOUR little men!

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Re: It's over...

I'm so sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 1:54 PM
 

keepingsecrets
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Posted 9/17/11 2:01 PM
 

LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5

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I am so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 2:08 PM
 

beanie571
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Oh no.... I am SO sorry to hear this. Chat Icon

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Posted 9/17/11 2:16 PM
 

InShock
life is good

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Re: It's over...

I'm so so sorry. Chat Icon Life just isn't fair sometimes. Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 2:16 PM
 

Donna
1 year already!!

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Donna

Re: It's over...

Shannon, I'm so sorry!

Posted 9/17/11 2:23 PM
 

Jax430
Hi!

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Jackie

Re: It's over...

Oh no....I am so sorry. There are just no words.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 2:38 PM
 

cateyemm
Twins!

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I am so sorry. Many many prayers for you and your family.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 2:48 PM
 

RGEC47
Feeling blessed!

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Rosa

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your hudsband. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 2:54 PM
 

2BirdsofaFeather
Miracles can happen!

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Oh my, I am so very sorry! I know there are no words I can give to ease your pain. My thoughts are with you and your DH. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 2:57 PM
 

nicknmb
SISTERS!

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MaryBeth

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Oh no......I am so terribly sorryChat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 3:00 PM
 

gsgirls1
LIF Toddler

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St Gerard and God, thank you for our blessing

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I am so very sorry. I have no other words and don't understand this path anymore. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 3:06 PM
 

LIRascal
drama. daily.

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Michelle

Re: It's over...

Chat Icon My God I am so so sorry and heartbroken for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon

I have to question how much God expects us to take? Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 3:23 PM
 

FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...

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oh noooo!!!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon im soooo soooo sorry. wishing you strength and peace!!

Posted 9/17/11 3:37 PM
 

skinny
3 boys and a princess!

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Momma

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OMG I am stunned to read this. I am so sorry. I don't even know what to say. I feel terrible for you.

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Posted 9/17/11 3:43 PM
 

CatNYC123
Happy Thoughts

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Cathy

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oh no!!! Im so sorry Chat Icon I am praying for you and DH!!
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Posted 9/17/11 3:58 PM
 

monkeybride
My Everything

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I am so sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 4:00 PM
 

ReRe17
LIF Infant

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Posted 9/17/11 4:03 PM
 

prunepie
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jennifer

Re: It's over...

Shannon I am so so sorry!!!!!!!

Posted 9/17/11 4:13 PM
 

MissMeliss
Love my kids

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Re: It's over...

I'm so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon many prayers to you and your dh.

Posted 9/17/11 4:17 PM
 

LemonHead
Sour Girl

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Re: It's over...

I am so sad for you and your DH. Many prayers to the both of you.

Posted 9/17/11 4:19 PM
 

mishmosh
That's all I got.

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Michelle

Re: It's over...

My heart dropped when I read this. I don't even know what to say. I'm so sorry.

Posted 9/17/11 4:24 PM
 

PurpleC
Miracles Do Come True

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Caren

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There are no words. Im sooooooooo sorry!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/17/11 4:28 PM
 
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