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I feel a little like a bad mom

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nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

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Nicole

I feel a little like a bad mom

I am leaving for Atlantic City tomorrow AM and will be back Saturday night. The thing is, I'm going with my girlfriends and leaving DH and DS at home. One part of me is so excited. I know I'm going to have an absolutely AMAZING time with my friends, but I feel a little guilty leaving. I know they'll be fine but I feel like I'm abandoning them. Chat Icon

Posted 4/4/07 10:29 PM
 
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!

Member since 5/05

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Properly perfect™

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Don't feel guilty...every Mommy needs some Me timeChat Icon

Posted 4/4/07 10:31 PM
 

Laura-DDS
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/07

840 total posts

Name:
Laura

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

You are so NOT a bad mom! You need some mommy time to re-energize and help you be a happy mommy. Enjoy yourself and give the boys some bonding time!
I am jealous I need a girls trip!Chat Icon
Have so much fun!

Posted 4/4/07 10:33 PM
 

SuzyQ
Mama to 3!?!?!?

Member since 7/06

8069 total posts

Name:
Susan

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Don't feel guilty. You deserve it. I'm jealous. Have a great time!

Posted 4/4/07 10:48 PM
 

Adri
Joy!

Member since 5/05

3116 total posts

Name:
A

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Oh no! Enjoy it! You deserve your own time! Have fun Chat Icon

Posted 4/4/07 10:57 PM
 

hbugal
Lesigh

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Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Guilt is what makes us good parents...Go and have a good time and they will be fine

Posted 4/5/07 12:56 AM
 

CouponKT
Our family is complete

Member since 6/06

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Name:
K

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Enjoy it!! Too many times you are held down because DH is out and about on the town. Do something fun and don't worry about it - you deserve it!

Posted 4/5/07 7:33 AM
 

Marybeth222
My Girls!

Member since 5/05

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Marybeth

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

GO GO GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You definitely will feel guilty (that's normal) but you need you time.

Be prepared for 100 calls from your DH! LOL

Have a great time, drink, have fun and get some sleep!

Posted 4/5/07 7:37 AM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

32461 total posts

Name:
me

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

You need some ME time once in a while.

Don't feel guilty!

Posted 4/5/07 7:40 AM
 

SweetCin
My green-eyed boy

Member since 5/05

13499 total posts

Name:
Cin

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Enjoy it, you deserve it. I was also reading a book that said its a GREAT idea to leave DC home w/ your DH every so often so he is able to bond w/ the child & see what is entailed in caring for that child 24/7....

Posted 4/5/07 7:53 AM
 

nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

18538 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Posted by Marybeth222

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Be prepared for 100 calls from your DH! LOL

Have a great time, drink, have fun and get some sleep!



I wouldn't even mind the phone calls, but I know my DH... he won't ask me for any help. If he doesn't know how to do something, he'll wing it. I'm sure Luca's schedule will be all over the place when I get back.
And as far as sleeping, my friends know not to wake me unless they have a death wish. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 8:38 AM
 

Marybeth222
My Girls!

Member since 5/05

2688 total posts

Name:
Marybeth

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

I'm jealous.....I'd kill for some sleep.

Have fun! Get a massage while you're there to. Go all out.

Posted 4/5/07 8:41 AM
 

nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

18538 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Posted by Marybeth222

I'm jealous.....I'd kill for some sleep.

Have fun! Get a massage while you're there to. Go all out.



Tomorrow is our spa day! Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 8:58 AM
 

Ali1
Mommy

Member since 8/05

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Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

I went with the girls in my family to Mohegan Sun when the boys were 4 months old and I left DH with them the whole weekend. I didn't feel bad at all........after 3 months of not one good night of sleep i slept like a baby there. My DH was tired when i got back but still did an amazing job with them. So enjoy yourself.....

Posted 4/5/07 9:08 AM
 

Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it

Member since 5/05

30683 total posts

Name:
D

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Posted by Moehick

Don't feel guilty...every Mommy needs some Me timeChat Icon



I agree...try to enjoy yourselfChat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 9:23 AM
 

Laura1
Fun in the Snow!

Member since 11/06

4512 total posts

Name:
Laura

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Enjoy it! I wish I could go, DH and I are going to try to go in about a month, we need some alone time especially since we were preggo during wedding in october, we need a weekend, or even a night away to have some adult funChat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 9:29 AM
 

ckdk
My girls

Member since 5/05

7027 total posts

Name:
Cheryl

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Posted by Diane

Posted by Moehick

Don't feel guilty...every Mommy needs some Me timeChat Icon



I agree...try to enjoy yourselfChat Icon



Definitely agree with this, ENJOY every minute!!

Posted 4/5/07 9:32 AM
 

BabyAvocado
Happy New Year

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Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

I'm so jealous!! Have a great time and don't feel an ounce of guilt!! You deserve it!! Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 9:35 AM
 

jessbaby
My boys!

Member since 1/06

5292 total posts

Name:
Jessica

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Have a great time! Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 10:06 AM
 

SoinLove
Making big changes

Member since 5/05

16541 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Posted by Moehick

Don't feel guilty...every Mommy needs some Me timeChat Icon



I agree! You're not a bad mommy at all! Go and ENJOY it!

Posted 4/5/07 10:16 AM
 

Selden78
I lvoe the fall :)

Member since 6/06

3543 total posts

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Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Have fun!! you need some time to yourself

Posted 4/5/07 10:35 AM
 

LInative
LIF Adult

Member since 11/05

1977 total posts

Name:
Cassie

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

I just got back from a wkend like this and I missed them SO much, but had a really good time. and I slept!! LOL. DH had a really nice weekend w/DS - they bonded, it was good for everyone! Have a blast!!

Posted 4/5/07 11:03 AM
 

nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

18538 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

At this point, I just can't wait to go already. My friends were supposed to pick me up at Grand Central at 10:04. I rushed around like a maniac getting everything ready this morning, caught the train on time, and then find out they they wanted to leave at 11:30. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon It would have been nice if they let me know that last night- especially considering I'm the only one with a baby. So now I had to take a cab from GCT to my friends apt. and I'm sitting here waiting for them to get ready. Chat Icon I could have spent more time with my son. Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/07 11:06 AM
 

Jenhos
Maeve

Member since 6/05

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Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

Go and enjoy!

Posted 4/5/07 11:07 AM
 

WoodIAm
My Boys!

Member since 5/05

5498 total posts

Name:
JoAnne

Re: I feel a little like a bad mom

I understand, but don't think you are a bad Mom. You deserve time for yourself.

Posted 4/5/07 11:20 AM
 
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