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how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

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donegal419
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K

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

I have 4. DD is 5, DS is 3, and twin boys are 8 months. I think we're done! 4 is tough and they are all so young so it's a lot of work right now. Plus I am almost 38 and DH is over 40. We're tired! Lol. But if we had another one, fine. It's God's plan, not mine. We would manage somehow!

Posted 12/17/14 11:25 PM
 
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Maybe-Baybe
My Sunshine

Member since 7/12

3415 total posts

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My only Sunshine

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

One 15 month old girl and I'd like to try for one more and that's it.

Posted 12/18/14 1:12 AM
 

NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09

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..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

Posted by Beck

Chat Icon & done

All of you with more than one are my heroesChat Icon

I don't know why but being a mother is too hard for me, I couldn't imagine having another one.

Grateful for my girl thoughChat Icon



This is exactly how I feel.
It was either 0 or 1 for me and now that I have 1, I can not imagine doing it again. I'd be in a mental hospital.
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Posted 12/18/14 8:53 AM
 

DaniJude
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Member since 11/06

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Danielle

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by Beck

Chat Icon & done

All of you with more than one are my heroesChat Icon

I don't know why but being a mother is too hard for me, I couldn't imagine having another one.

Grateful for my girl thoughChat Icon



This is exactly how I feel.
It was either 0 or 1 for me and now that I have 1, I can not imagine doing it again. I'd be in a mental hospital.
Chat Icon



I really admire you guys for saying this...

I think a lot of women wouldn't come out and say that because they would feel "guilty", for lack of a better term, not being that gushing-happy all of the time - mom with it all together who can handle anything and a litter of kids. KWIM?

I think you being candid and honest about how it IS difficult and how one can be enough for you and that's OK is important to mention so that other people who feel that way don't have to feel bad for feeling that way.

I actually want three kids total, I came from three so I want three as well -- so it's not even like I appreciate you writing it because I can personally relate. It's more that I just think society shames women for not embracing all things motherhood as roses and confetti all the time.

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Posted 12/18/14 10:25 AM
 

MrsProfessor
hi

Member since 5/05

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Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by Beck

Chat Icon & done

All of you with more than one are my heroesChat Icon

I don't know why but being a mother is too hard for me, I couldn't imagine having another one.

Grateful for my girl thoughChat Icon



This is exactly how I feel.
It was either 0 or 1 for me and now that I have 1, I can not imagine doing it again. I'd be in a mental hospital.
Chat Icon



Chat Icon I am one and done too. My Chat Icon is 7 now. I just never got the urge to have another one. Fortunately she loves being an only child.

Posted 12/18/14 10:29 AM
 

DRMom
Two in Blue

Member since 5/05

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Melissa

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

Twin 6 year old boys. Done

Posted 12/18/14 10:42 AM
 

myminions
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Member since 2/14

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Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

2, one boy and one girl ...DONE!

Posted 12/18/14 12:33 PM
 

JennyPenny
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Member since 1/08

12702 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

2 girls and probably

Posted 12/18/14 12:51 PM
 

EMC11709
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Member since 3/10

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Erica

how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

2 Boys and probably done

Posted 12/18/14 1:13 PM
 

mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!

Member since 3/09

8585 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

2 girls 2 & 4. We are on the fence about going for #3. I wouldn't want anymore than 4 years between my youngest and a new baby so the clock is ticking.

Posted 12/18/14 1:22 PM
 

NoStressMom
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Member since 5/05

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D

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

2 daughters 3 yrs 9 months apart we are done :)

Posted 12/18/14 2:10 PM
 

Lannasmama
Love my girls

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Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

1 girl and another on the way. DONE.

Posted 12/18/14 2:45 PM
 

Sparrow
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Member since 11/10

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Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

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Probably maybe one more, God willing?

Posted 12/18/14 2:52 PM
 

Pinkisles
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how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

One boy and I would like one more, but I need a house first

Posted 12/18/14 7:41 PM
 

PurpleC
Miracles Do Come True

Member since 8/10

2287 total posts

Name:
Caren

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

My DS will be three next week, DD us 19 months and DS is 4 months. I told the doctor before my 3rd I wanted my tubes tied instead they took them out. If I was younger and richer I would have had more but 3 is enough for us,we are DONE!!!

Posted 12/18/14 11:46 PM
 

EndlessSummer719
Love my babies

Member since 4/10

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Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

14 year old ss
Chat Icon 4 years old next month
Chat Icon 15 months
We are done!

Posted 12/18/14 11:48 PM
 

evrythng4areason
And then there were 4

Member since 1/10

5224 total posts

Name:
Kayla

how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

5 mo dd

Ideally i would love to have 2 or 3 more

Posted 12/19/14 8:14 AM
 

Snoopy36
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Member since 12/13

665 total posts

Name:
Caille

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

2 boys-- SOOOOOO done!! Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/14 8:25 AM
 

Snoopy36
LIF Adolescent

Member since 12/13

665 total posts

Name:
Caille

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

Posted by DaniRella

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by Beck

Chat Icon & done

All of you with more than one are my heroesChat Icon

I don't know why but being a mother is too hard for me, I couldn't imagine having another one.

Grateful for my girl thoughChat Icon



This is exactly how I feel.
It was either 0 or 1 for me and now that I have 1, I can not imagine doing it again. I'd be in a mental hospital.
Chat Icon



I really admire you guys for saying this...

I think a lot of women wouldn't come out and say that because they would feel "guilty", for lack of a better term, not being that gushing-happy all of the time - mom with it all together who can handle anything and a litter of kids. KWIM?

I think you being candid and honest about how it IS difficult and how one can be enough for you and that's OK is important to mention so that other people who feel that way don't have to feel bad for feeling that way.

I actually want three kids total, I came from three so I want three as well -- so it's not even like I appreciate you writing it because I can personally relate. It's more that I just think society shames women for not embracing all things motherhood as roses and confetti all the time.

Refreshing Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/14 8:27 AM
 

NewLeaf2012
LIF Adult

Member since 1/11

2741 total posts

Name:
....

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

1 son. 5 years old. Done, but not by my choice...

Posted 12/19/14 9:56 AM
 

momtimes2
LIF Infant

Member since 4/14

333 total posts

Name:
stephanie

how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

2 kids, my dd is 7 (will be 8 in March) and my son is 5 - we are done!!!

Posted 12/19/14 11:24 AM
 

BriBri2u
L'amore vince sempre

Member since 5/05

9320 total posts

Name:
Mrs. B

how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

I have a 4 year old DS and a 1 year old DD.

I have stated before that if I could stay home and we could afford it we would have one more. But that reality will never happen with us living in NY/LI.

Posted 12/19/14 11:50 AM
 

scarletbegonia
Mr. Handsome

Member since 5/06

13481 total posts

Name:
V

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

Chat Icon - 5 years old
Chat Icon - 4.5 months old

Done done done done done. Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/14 12:12 PM
 

Kate
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Member since 5/05

7557 total posts

Name:
Kate

Re: how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

3 boys - 8,5 and 2. We are done.

Posted 12/19/14 12:42 PM
 

worrywort
LIF Infant

Member since 2/12

161 total posts

Name:
meghan

how many kids do you have, their gender and and are you done?

2 ds, 18 months apart. Done. :)

Posted 12/20/14 7:49 AM
 
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