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Jenny614
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Jen

Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I need some help. So my MIL has this theory that if your first two children are of the same gender then it's like a 90% chance that the third will be the same gender. And her explanation for those that had a different gender third then there must have been a miscarriage or abortion at some point. I know this sounds crazy, but I'm having trouble finding examples in real life lol.

Posted 5/1/14 9:59 PM
 
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Naturalmama
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I only have 2 right now (both boys), but I know plenty of people with 3 kids.

My best friend had
Chat Icon Chat Icon and then # 3 was Chat Icon

Another one of my good friends has a sister who had Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

And my cousin had Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I think it is 50/50, just like every pregnancy

Message edited 5/1/2014 10:14:51 PM.

Posted 5/1/14 10:13 PM
 

Mrs213
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Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

Nonsense...

Posted 5/1/14 10:13 PM
 

PitterPatter11
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Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I would not give much credit to that theory. Sperm determines the sex of the baby. For each pregnancy, you have a 50% chance to have one sex or the other. I am one of five: girl, girl, boy, boy, girl. To the best of my knowledge, my mom never had a miscarriage or abortion.

Posted 5/1/14 10:16 PM
 

BeachMom
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

Omg, complete nonsense... I have 4...
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I had 2 mc's in between them all.

I know people who had 2 boys then a girl with no mc also and ones with 3 of the same sex with mc's in between,

Posted 5/1/14 10:18 PM
 

DiamondGirl
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Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

My neighbors have two girls and a boy...I know many like that lol

Posted 5/1/14 10:19 PM
 

Jenny614
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Jen

Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

Thanks for the responses! I know it's crazy but every time I would ask people I knew...her theory was supported and I'm like what the hell!!! I would love to hear more;)

Posted 5/1/14 10:25 PM
 

Kelly9904
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

Here are some 3s I can think of off the top of my head

my parents
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon (although 3rd was in now way planned- Surprise )Chat Icon

My In laws
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Friends
#1 - Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
#2 - Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
#3 - :Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I have heard that theory before though

Message edited 5/1/2014 11:08:54 PM.

Posted 5/1/14 11:07 PM
 

MrsG823
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S

Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

My parents: girl, girl, boy
My cousin: girl, girl, boy
DH's mom: boy, boy, girl, girl, boy
My friend: boy, girl, girl
You have a 50/50 chance each pregnancy of having a boy or girl.

Posted 5/1/14 11:13 PM
 

drpepper318
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I don't think it's true. My parents had Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon with no miscarriages in between (at least none that my mom was aware of, according to her).

I have read that some men inherit from their fathers a greater likelihood of having a boy... don't know the mechanism of this but I know many examples... If a man has only brothers (all the same father), he may be more likely to have all boys... I know several examples of this. For this reason, my FIL is convinced we'll never have a girl because my DH has all brothers & no sisters. Who knows if it's true, but I'm sure there are many exceptions.

Posted 5/1/14 11:34 PM
 

gina409
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

My mom has 4 girls in a row. No mc

Posted 5/1/14 11:35 PM
 

Eireann
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

My very intelligent DH thought that too. Chat Icon
We have Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and yes, I did have a miscarriage after DD2 (One of my very comforting friends said, "Maybe God wanted you to have a boy." Chat Icon Chat Icon).

Anyway, it's true that most of the people I know with three have three of the same, but I do know a few Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and only one had a m/c.

It's 50/50 each time, IMO.

Message edited 5/1/2014 11:42:22 PM.

Posted 5/1/14 11:40 PM
 

Jenny614
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Jen

Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

Posted by drpepper318

I don't think it's true. My parents had Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon with no miscarriages in between (at least none that my mom was aware of, according to her).

I have read that some men inherit from their fathers a greater likelihood of having a boy... don't know the mechanism of this but I know many examples... If a man has only brothers (all the same father), he may be more likely to have all boys... I know several examples of this. For this reason, my FIL is convinced we'll never have a girl because my DH has all brothers & no sisters. Who knows if it's true, but I'm sure there are many exceptions.



My DH is one of three boys. Both of his brothers each had two boys before we got pregnant with our first. I was sure we would have boys too. Now we have two girls!!

Posted 5/2/14 1:32 AM
 

PennyCat
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I think that believing this theory shows a misunderstanding of how this whole thing works.Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/14 2:16 AM
 

pharmcat2000
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

Me: Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon (MC after #1 (that baby was a girl), and after #2 (not sure of gender).

Friend: Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon (No MC)
Friend: Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon (no MC)

Posted 5/2/14 3:36 AM
 

islandersgirl74
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I don't believe that theory but my best friend has 3 boys and my cousin has 3 girls.

Posted 5/2/14 5:56 AM
 

JenandMikey
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

Have three girls and no mc/abortions

Message edited 5/2/2014 7:04:45 AM.

Posted 5/2/14 6:22 AM
 

Eireann
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

Posted by Jenny614

Posted by drpepper318

I don't think it's true. My parents had Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon with no miscarriages in between (at least none that my mom was aware of, according to her).

I have read that some men inherit from their fathers a greater likelihood of having a boy... don't know the mechanism of this but I know many examples... If a man has only brothers (all the same father), he may be more likely to have all boys... I know several examples of this. For this reason, my FIL is convinced we'll never have a girl because my DH has all brothers & no sisters. Who knows if it's true, but I'm sure there are many exceptions.



My DH is one of three boys. Both of his brothers each had two boys before we got pregnant with our first. I was sure we would have boys too. Now we have two girls!!



This is my DH's family too! He's the youngest of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon; his oldest brother had Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and his middle brother had Chat Icon Chat Icon when I gave birth to our first Chat Icon. My DH and I didn't find out the gender so we were screaming in surprise in the OR...figured we'd add to the boys! Would have LOVED to have seen my MIL's reaction!!

Message edited 5/2/2014 6:39:01 AM.

Posted 5/2/14 6:38 AM
 

mnmsoinlove
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I believe every pregnancy is 50/50 shot however a lot of people I know have 3 of the same. My friend just had her 5th boy!

Posted 5/2/14 7:07 AM
 

LiveItUp
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Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I don't believe that theory at all.

I know someone with four kids, tge first a girl and the next 3 all boys. Also someone with 5 kids, the first a girl and the next four all boys. I also know someone with 3 boys. And someone with 3 girls. It's really all random.

Posted 5/2/14 7:15 AM
 

MrsS2005
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I know quite a few people with Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and no miscarriages in between. I also have friends who have 3 or 4 of the same sex. DH is the oldest of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and his father is the second oldest of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon.

Posted 5/2/14 7:20 AM
 

FranM
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

My ML had 6 Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

My neighbor has 8 Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

My Grandmother
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

friends
#1 Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
#2 Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

#3 Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

#4 Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
totally random, luck of the draw, fate what ever you want to call it!

Message edited 5/2/2014 7:27:25 AM.

Posted 5/2/14 7:26 AM
 

babyface10
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

My friends had no miscarraiges and i had Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon the other had Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and the other had Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon . I am 1 of 7 and it isChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon . DH is one of 5 and it is Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon . I have Chat Icon Chat Icon .

There is no logic to what she is saying.

Posted 5/2/14 7:27 AM
 

StaceyWill
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

My cousin has 3 kids. She has: Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/14 7:45 AM
 

skinny
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Re: Do you or anyone you know have three kids?

I think she's wrong in general, but in my case she was correct.

Twin boys, MC and then another boy.

Posted 5/2/14 7:50 AM
 
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