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ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

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TOMLEE7801
LIF Zygote

Member since 1/06

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ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

Why is it that everytime we have a failed cycle we go to the extreme. Tonight I have been on every adoption website even checking airfare costs. Then the next minute I am scanning the internet for one glimmer of hope to why they don't implant. If one more Doctor tells me the cycle was perfect I am going to scream. Apparently it was not a perfect cycle if it did not take. Now I get to sit through another consultation with the Doctor and listen to how it is only a 35% chance that a blastocyst implants, & how hard it is for every woman to get pregnant. Well every woman dosen't have to pay everytime they don't get a positive pregnancy test. I am sorry to add such a negative post but i am past the upset stage and now the mad stage is setting in. Wishing all of you on their journey much luck. As for me I think I need a little break.
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Posted 1/23/06 11:48 PM
 
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CookiePuss
Cake from Outer Space!

Member since 5/05

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Re: ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

I'm sorry. I know how hard this is and you have every right to feel the way you do. We are always here to vent to. Sending you lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/24/06 6:58 AM
 

dooodles
When you wish upon a star

Member since 5/05

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Because 2 people fell in love

Re: ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

I am so sorry for all that you are going through Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/24/06 7:59 AM
 

LisaW
Time for me to FLY!

Member since 5/05

13199 total posts

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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

Re: ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

I'm so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/24/06 8:06 AM
 

redstar
Delay is not denial

Member since 5/05

2220 total posts

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Michelle

Re: ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

I am very sorry, this is definitely an emotional roller coaster. I hope your break brings you peace and you can have a healthy pregnancy to follow !Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/24/06 8:17 AM
 

rose825
Best Friends

Member since 6/05

10228 total posts

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Re: ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon what you are going through is perfectly normal. Ever failed cycle is a loss and we go through the 5 stages of grief:
DENIAL --- What's the first thing you do? You try to start it again! And again. You may check to make sure the radio, heater, lights, etc. are off and then..., try again.

ANGER --- "%$@^##& car!", "I should have junked you years ago." Did you slam your hand on the steering wheel? I have. "I should just leave you out in the rain and let you rust."

BARGAINING --- (realizing that you're going to be late for work)..., "Oh please car, if you will just start one more time I promise I'll buy you a brand new battery, get a tune up, new tires, belts and hoses, and keep you in perfect working condition.

DEPRESSION --- "Oh God, what am I going to do. I'm going to be late for work. I give up. My job is at risk and I don't really care any more. What's the use".

ACCEPTANCE --- "Ok. It's dead. Guess I had better call the Auto Club or find another way to work. Time to get on with my day; I'll deal with this later."


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Posted 1/24/06 8:20 AM
 

Donna
1 year already!!

Member since 5/05

3360 total posts

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Donna

Re: ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

I'm sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I think a break is a great idea - I took one after 2 converted cycles and it did wonders for me and my life with DH.
I hope a break brings you much peace and restores your hope that you will be a mom one day Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

we're always here if you need us

Posted 1/24/06 8:51 AM
 

sylvester
LIF Infant

Member since 10/05

325 total posts

Name:
Rosanna

Re: ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

so sorry. I know how difficult this time is. i too have searched for why mine did not implant after they told me that the embryos looked great. You will be okay. I think a break is good. Take care of yourself.

Posted 1/24/06 11:26 AM
 

karacg
Babygirl is 4!

Member since 5/05

17076 total posts

Name:
Kara®

Re: ANOTHER FAILED CYCLE...

I am so sorry for what you are going through....this is part of the reason I am putting off my IVF. I feel like it is my last resort and if it doesn't work, where will I go from there? Besides that we wouldn't be able to afford to do more than 1 cycle.

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you. Maybe a break will be just what you need.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/24/06 11:48 AM
 
 

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