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clmj2
cant believe hes gone
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i need major advice -thank you everyone
we got the worst news today i have ever heard in my life. my husband most likely will not live, if he does it would be in a vegitative state and i know that is not what he would have wanted (he told me many times) we find out monday see if a miracle happens...i dont know how to handle myself.
DD is 20 months she has no clue what is going on...shes staying with my parents while i am up here with Kenny. if a miracle dosent happen, i dont know how to handle it with her.
i dont know what i am looking for, because i hope no one has been in this situation to have advice to give me.
i need a miracle, i dont know how to do this without him
11:28pm -
thank you so much for all your thoughts and prayers, i really think they will help us! we will not know more until monday at 4:30...the doc. will come back with what he found on the tests from that day.
his brother and i sat in there for an hour tonight telling him all the things we would do for/with him if he fights and comes back to us...he is a fighter always has been always will be...if anyone can do it he can.
update 9-21-09
its been 10 days since the accident now.
today we had a meeting with Dr. Young....they did not get a chance to do another EEG so they will be doing it tomorrow and telling us the findings around 6...another day to sit around and agonize of the what ifs...from his check on him today he did say there is only a 5% chance of him coming back...mind you that is a whole lot better than 0% so im grasping on that 5%....i am also living in reality and getting things straightened out on what he would want if he does remain in the 95%.
wednesday i will need some extra prayers...my dad will be in the same hospital have surgery for prostate cancer.
i need this year to be overwith already!
just want to add another huge thank you for all the hugs and prayers, we still need them!
9-23-09
this will most likely be my final update...we talked to the doctors today and there is no chance of him being in anything more than a vegitative state...I am respecting Kennys wishes and letting him go. Tomorrow afternoon they will start the process...i am beyond lost right now, hes only 28 and we have only gotten to be married for 2.5 years...its just not fair.
9-24-09
just wanted to come on and say thank you to everyone, your love and support have been amazing through all of this.
Kenny passed last night around 7:30pm
we did donate some organs and he will possibly save the lives of 4-5 ppl.
i am feeling pretty lost today...its really become real that hes not here anymore, i cant fool myself anymore that he is going to wake up.
my dad had his surgery yesterday too...he made out good i guess...when i saw him he was all drugged up and asking if kenny was comfortable  
Message edited 9/24/2009 7:09:08 AM.
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want2beamom
Love my boys soooo much!!!
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True love doesn't end with happily ever after...
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
A million prayers for a miracle
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maybesoon
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
Praying that your DH pulls through this 
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:35 PM |
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eddiesmommy
best buds!
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Melissa
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
OMG! Im so sorry, Im still pulling for him! I will continue to pray like crazy!
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:35 PM |
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KateDevine
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
Oh my god....I am so, so, so sorry
As for advice, I think you need to decide what is best for your family, and honor your husband's wishes as difficult as that may be.
Again, I am so sorry Many, Many for you, your husband and your DD
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:36 PM |
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LoriH
There's no place like home
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Lori
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:37 PM |
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MsSissy
xoxoxo
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
oh my god...I have no words....only
I am so very sorry...may you find the strength to get you through this.
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
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nylisa
My Children
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MaMa
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
OMGosh I am so very very very sorry to hear this! I will be praying so hard for you and your family for a miracle!
I wish I had advice! I am so sorry!
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:40 PM |
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Superkat
More a stranger than a friend
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K
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
OMG, so many prayers for all of you.
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
I am so, so sorry. I truly hope there is a miracle out there for you.
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:40 PM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
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LB
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
oh my gosh Candice
you have all of our support. i wish you were closer. please let us know if there is anything at all we can do.
many, many, many for your husband.
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:41 PM |
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TLC1018
I AM A BIG SISTER!!
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
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smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
OMG... I did not know anything happened!
I am so so sorry you have to go through this.
Many
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
Oh God...I'm so so sorry......I will pray for you and him and a miracle.....
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:43 PM |
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hbugal
Lesigh
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
Oh Candice...I wish you werent so far away.
We'll all be praying for you...
If there is anything that we all can do for you please let us know!!!!
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Mkr09
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
I am soooo sorry. This must be the most awful decision to make. I pray that you receive a miracle.
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Meggo613
im a big girl!
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Megan
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
all my prayers are with you and your husband may you find the strength to get through this difficult time! 
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:45 PM |
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littlejoy06
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
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julz33
i run for bacon
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julz
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
OMG, I am so sorry to hear the terrible news! I am really hoping you get that miracle on Monday. Is there anything we can do to help?
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| Posted 9/18/09 10:49 PM |
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Lisa
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
I'm so sorry to hear this. I was hoping for good news for you.
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DNR
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Re: i need major advice - i guess also update about DH
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I am so sorry you are going thru this. My heart breaks for you. Stay strong.
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