Helping dad cope with more loss

This isn't mom related per say. My oldest brother died in April. My other brohters and I really pulled together and helped each other through and are now there for his kids.

My dad on the other hand......wanted it to be all about the girlfriend and her being at the hospital blah blah blah.

I know he is hurting but I struggle to be there for him sometimes.

so much loss..i'm so sorry for your family. my opinion...he's in denial and only he can pull himself out of it. don't drive yourself crazy. i'm sure he knows youre there if he needs you.