anyone in the same boat?

I am not a motherless daughter but rather a fatherless daughter that reall has no one to talk to. I fear alot right now. I am so scared that my mother is not doing well. All she is talking about is her illness and ailments...#1 topic of conversations. I am preggo and it makes everything so much harder. I have a handicapped yonger sister who depends on my mom but yet she is dependent on all of us. I feel so trapped by the pressure to help everyone (my mom, sister, and brother) cope but I cant help how I feel. I havent gotten past the death of my father but choose not to deal with it...at least too much. The rest of them seem in a deeper type depression and its making it hard on me and my soon to be family. I want to help but I dont know what to do. In addition my dads unveiling is in nov (1 month before baby is due) and I dont know how i am going to make it. any advice?

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Message edited 7/12/2006 3:50:53 PM.

I feel you. You are not alone. My father died 5-30-06 at 56 years old. I am not dealing with my fathers death at all. Feel free to FM me if you need to chat. Sending

I am so sorry. I lost my dad too...he was 52...it was almost 6 years ago already and stills feels like a year ago....think because it was a sudden stroke and he was healthy. I think I will forever mourn his death...he was everything to me...not only both a mom and dad...but my best friend.

Please FM if you need anything!