so my dads white trash girlfirend is beating up my brother...

He has called the cops 2x and she is also on probation for assaulting her last boyfirend and has been hitting my brother since he came home from college! To make matters worse My dad still wont get rid of this lady- right now she had to run away because there is a warrent out for her arrest. This is absurd I cant take it anymore- I have basically cut off my dad from my life at this point but my brother still feels bad for him He thinks my dad just has no backbone and lets this woman continue to rule his life. AHHHH! Plus my brother lives with my dad still and my dad pays for his college so he doesnt want to break ties with him but we cant seem to talk any sense into him. He says he feels bad for this woman because she has no where to go! Get a F*ucking job and stay the hell out of our lives!!!!

OMG Antoinette!!

I really do not know what to say but I can TOTALLY emphasize as I have been in a somewhat similar situation. It sounds to me as if she is completely taking advantage of your father and he does not have the backbone to get it to stop. Is it possible to stage some sort of intervention involving you and your brother or any family members that may know about the situation? At this point, there is danger involved and it sounds like a completely unhealthy situation. You can not predict, how your dad will react, however. If he does not agree to get rid of this woman, you and your brother may have to cut him off permanently.

Believe me, I know only too well how painful of a situation this can be. Unfortunately, it is up to your dad to make the right decision!!

our situation was not as bad as yours- but we were planning an intervention to wake my Dad up to what was going on

he snapped out of it on his own- about 2 days before we were going to confront him

Well, at least you post your feelings here...I on the other hand would refer to my father's last girlfriend as the woman, bi*ch or white trash to her face.
Your dad needs to show her the Sunday Classifieds and the door!!!

Message edited 7/13/2006 10:42:16 AM.