Mature relationship/body question

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Posted by Shorty

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Posted by missus-hbradio

Shorty - you have the tiniest waist!!!

I would like to lose 80-100 pounds ....

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thank you - but its really the illusion of the dress. That's probably not "THE" dress for me, but its the waistline I'm looking for. ILLUSION, I TELL YA!

Actually, my waist is the chunkiest part of my body

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Posted by Shorty

Ok, I ALSO would like to lose weight! Although Rich claims he doesn't care about that, I definitely do.

And I had a reduction when I was 20. Rich said that it was totally up to me, and if it would make me feel better about myself, then he was all for it. Funny - he's MUCH more of a boob-guy now that they're smaller. (Maybe he's not so overwhelmed )

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The only thing I wish I could do is hit the gym so I could tone up my body. DH finds tops that show some belly, extremely sexy. I think my goal is to tone up my body.

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Posted by nrthshgrl

Wow - a complete difference. While I was always in the wish for more category, I can only imagine how much strain that was on your back.

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sometimes i look at those pics and remember how disgusting i felt. i'm so so soooooo glad i did it.

I was scheduled for a breast reduction 6+ years ago, but my then boyfriend (now DH) talked me out of it (I also had concerns about the surgeon, so it wasn't just my DH's influence.)

He's a boob man, so he's not so keen on me have a reduction, but after I have this child, I intend to have them reduced. It's not about aesthetics for me anymore, but more physical discomfort and the inability to be active.

Chatham - you never know how it'll go!

He likes them better now that they're smaller! Still big, compared to most people, but muuuuuch smaller than they were.

good luck

I'd love to lose weight and have a breast reduction. We'll see what happens after baby #2 is born.

Def. my boobies and my arse. I have no arse, but plenty of boobage. I wish I could take some of the boobies and put it in my arse.

Lose weight. I was happy and confident before I had the baby. I have a spare tire now.

honestly, no, i would not change a thing. i think for my size, i'm pretty proportioned.

Right now I wouldn't change anything, but someday after kids and things start sagging, who knows how I would feel about it then!

DH says he loves me exactly the way I am! But I am sure if I wanted to do something, he would support me.