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Redhead

Why is it that the scenario is ALWAYS the 2 girls and a guy?

Why is it that people think you must be bi? People have 3-ways without any same sex play...


IMO if the guys are sooo hot to do the scenario....shouldn't the fun be had with both scenarios?



 
Posted 5/18/06 10:19 PM
JenniferEver

I'd go for a m-f-m 3 way! yeah, baby!

I think b/c guys are really homophobic and can't deal with the sight of another man naked in their bed, wheras for women it's more acceptable for even casual gestures like holding hands...and don't forget the theory that all women are bi (a guy theory of course)..also I think men are probably more like to really go for the fantasy in bed, wheras women are into the reality... but maybe that's just a perception b/c we hear so MUCH about guys' fantasies.

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:23 PM
nrthshgrl

I dont' think the scenario is always 2 girls & a guy. I think men talk about it more often - and many are not willing to share.

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:24 PM
~Colleen~

Definitely isn't always 2 girl's and a guy Chat Icon but I agree with nrthshgrl - men definitely talk about it more.

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:26 PM
JenniferEver

I was once dating a guy who was best friends with my male best friend...I cannot describe to you how much I wanted to get BOTH of them into bed. LOL

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:28 PM
Redhead

I know it isn't always the 2 girls and a guy...LOLOLOL

but it just seems that the converstaions out there, even on this board are that particular scenario..

And although i understand men fantasizing about it...ok

But those that suggest doing it....

More times than not if the reverse was proposed it would be shot down

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:29 PM
JenniferEver

VERY few guys would even THINK of a MFM threesome or discuss it to the extent that we're discussing FMF

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:31 PM
Redhead


Posted by marymoon

VERY few guys would even THINK of a MFM threesome or discuss it to the extent that we're discussing FMF


yea know....but i find that a little BS.

just a pet peeve of mine

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:31 PM
~Colleen~

That's just a product of our society. 2 women = sexy....2 men = gay Chat Icon Also b/c it is typically "THE" male fantasy, I think it is just always assumed that it should be the way the man wants it: 2 women...

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:32 PM
JenniferEver


Posted by Colleen9304

That's just a product of our society. 2 women = sexy....2 men = gay Chat Icon Also b/c it is typically "THE" male fantasy, I think it is just always assumed that it should be the way the man wants it: 2 women...



Yup.

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:32 PM
Redhead

i see

i just think that people forget that yes you can have a 3-way without any bi activity!


 
Posted 5/18/06 10:33 PM
JenniferEver


Posted by Redhead

i see

i just think that people forget that yes you can have a 3-way without any bi activity!




Of course they do, because without any bi activity, there would be no fun for the guys Chat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:34 PM
Redhead


Posted by marymoon


Posted by Redhead

i see

i just think that people forget that yes you can have a 3-way without any bi activity!




Of course they do, because without any bi activity, there would be no fun for the guys Chat Icon


point takenChat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:34 PM
Eva Luna

In my relationship, the fantasy is DH's and it's to see me and another girl get it on. He doesn't have to be present...he just wants to watch and would take a tape of it. Chat Icon I don't think however that he wants to see me get b@nged by another guy...not sexy to him. And I don't want either scenario (MFM or MFF) so his fantasy is the one that gets discussed...and laughed at! Chat Icon

And I couldn't think of doing 2 dudes...even if one of them was my DH.

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:34 PM
~Colleen~


Posted by Redhead

i see

i just think that people forget that yes you can have a 3-way without any bi activity!





LOL, I know...that's Hollywood for ya Chat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:35 PM
Eva Luna


Posted by marymoon


Posted by Redhead

i see

i just think that people forget that yes you can have a 3-way without any bi activity!




Of course they do, because without any bi activity, there would be no fun for the guys Chat Icon



I don't think all guys want to be "active"...but that could be just me.

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:36 PM
Redhead


Posted by Colleen9304


Posted by Redhead

i see

i just think that people forget that yes you can have a 3-way without any bi activity!





LOL, I know...that's Hollywood for ya Chat Icon

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Posted 5/18/06 10:36 PM
btrflygrl


Posted by sasha

In my relationship, the fantasy is DH's and it's to see me and another girl get it on. He doesn't have to be present...he just wants to watch and would take a tape of it. Chat Icon I don't think however that he wants to see me get b@nged by another guy...not sexy to him. And I don't want either scenario (MFM or MFF) so his fantasy is the one that gets discussed...and laughed at! Chat Icon

And I couldn't think of doing 2 dudes...even if one of them was my DH.



that's more along the lines of what my DH wants....he just thinks it'd be HOT to see me with another chick....and then he gets me to himselfChat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 10:38 PM