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A spinoff to my thread that got pulled today.

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DebG

On the thread poeple stated that they did not like to participate in a particular sex act much to the dismay of thier partner.
My question is, if there is one sex act that a partner wants and the other is against...does it become a constant point of contention in your marriage?
Or do you "give in" on special occasions and its enough of a compramise to hold the other off from complaining for a while?

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:35 PM
Moehick

Don't know...DH and I don't have that problemChat Icon Chat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:36 PM
Tah-wee-ZAH

I think it would have to depend upon what it was. Honestly, if DH ever suggested other people or some sort of "crazy equipment" (bondage, etc.) I'd either laugh in his face or give him the look of death.

There are some "activities" I enjoy more than others and I might be in the mood more often to do certain activities than others. Doesn't mean I cave in and just do it, just means it's not "my favorite".

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:39 PM
Eva Luna

I'm all for it all - gotta try everything at least once Chat Icon - but no bringing people...this is where I put my foot down. So as long as it's between him and me, and if I'm drunk enough, I'm game. That's it!! Chat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:41 PM
DebG


Posted by sasha
and if I'm drunk enough, I'm game. That's it!! Chat Icon



Thats my motto!
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Posted 5/18/06 5:41 PM
Eva Luna


Posted by DebG


Posted by sasha
and if I'm drunk enough, I'm game. That's it!! Chat Icon



Thats my motto!
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Chat Icon That's an awesome motto. It makes for happy husbands!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:42 PM
QuoteTheRaven424

she doesn't swallow

it pisses me off but i have grown to accept it

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:43 PM
Eva Luna


Posted by CaptainCharisma424

she doesn't swallow

it pisses me off but i have grown to accept it



Oh...that too. OK, fine, no third people and no swallowing. But everything else...I'm game...jsut get me drunk enough!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:43 PM
Moehick


Posted by CaptainCharisma424

she doesn't swallow

it pisses me off but i have grown to accept it



Where is Boosh? We need to hear the dirt on youChat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:45 PM
QuoteTheRaven424


Posted by Moehick


Posted by CaptainCharisma424

she doesn't swallow

it pisses me off but i have grown to accept it



Where is Boosh? We need to hear the dirt on youChat Icon



what do you want to know? i'll tell you

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:46 PM
Moehick


Posted by CaptainCharisma424


Posted by Moehick


Posted by CaptainCharisma424

she doesn't swallow

it pisses me off but i have grown to accept it



Where is Boosh? We need to hear the dirt on youChat Icon



what do you want to know? i'll tell you



No way....I wanna hear it from herChat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:48 PM
QuoteTheRaven424

she's out tonight

but i don't lie

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:48 PM
Moehick


Posted by CaptainCharisma424

she's out tonight

but i don't lie



I know you don't Spanky...just want a womans perspectiveChat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:50 PM
QuoteTheRaven424

as to why she doesn't swallow?

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:52 PM
Eva Luna


Posted by CaptainCharisma424

as to why she doesn't swallow?



Aw, come one, we could prob tell you that!! Chat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:54 PM
jilmadison


Posted by Moehick

Don't know...DH and I don't have that problemChat Icon Chat Icon



we don't either

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:55 PM
DebG

Don- Why does her not swallowing bug you?
honestly? once you shot your load, why care where it goes?

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:55 PM
Eva Luna


Posted by jilmadison


Posted by Moehick

Don't know...DH and I don't have that problemChat Icon Chat Icon



we don't either



You all have lucky men!! Chat Icon

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Maybe one day I'll stop being a baby...Chat Icon Chat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:56 PM
Tah-wee-ZAH


Posted by CaptainCharisma424

she doesn't swallow

it pisses me off but i have grown to accept it



Yeah, this is a BIG deal for guys.

Can I ask for an opinion other than my DH's on this?
Seriously, isn't it the "action" that a woman is performing more important/pleasurable than if that woman swallows?Chat Icon

On the flip side, I don't really see why some women have such a hangup about it.

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:56 PM
Eva Luna

I don't have a hang up...I am just grossed out by it. I'm not one of those "it's all good baby" type chicks. He can put the load anywhere...except my mouth.

OMG that is so ***** dirty!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I need a bath!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

 
Posted 5/18/06 5:58 PM
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