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trying to decrease anxiety

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Redhead	In my quest to try to decrease my anxieties about starting TTC.... I am trying to be progressive and prepare.. so i have heard that the daycare i might use is an affordable one...BIG LOAD off my mind... but still have to go an ask specific questions NOW on to the house anxiety factor Posted 5/11/05 9:16 PM
Gertyrae	Yeah, I am with you in the house anxiety...What a horror show out there. We just keep looking and saying "We can't afford that"....Hopefully by the end of the year. The nice thing, as my Mom says, is that you really don't need extra room for the first couple of months. The baby would be with you anyway. Posted 5/11/05 9:19 PM
Elbee	Awww Jen, justw anted to give you these Life is scary these days, isn;t it? Marriage, House, Children, Jobs ... so many important steps! Posted 5/11/05 9:33 PM
Redhead	Posted by Gertyrae Yeah, I am with you in the house anxiety...What a horror show out there. We just keep looking and saying "We can't afford that"....Hopefully by the end of the year. The nice thing, as my Mom says, is that you really don't need extra room for the first couple of months. The baby would be with you anyway. YES this is true! And if i see a light at the end of the tunnel...that will be fine for me... It is when i do not see it that freaks me out! But only time will tell....just trying to be as prepared as i possibly can Posted 5/12/05 7:13 AM
Redhead	Posted by Elbee Awww Jen, justw anted to give you these Life is scary these days, isn;t it? Marriage, House, Children, Jobs ... so many important steps! AWWWWW Thanks Lisa and YES it is scary....AHHH LIFE Posted 5/12/05 7:14 AM
DebG	Posted 5/12/05 7:34 AM
MrsProfessor	Posted by Redhead But only time will tell....just trying to be as prepared as i possibly can And I think that will take away a lot of the anxiety- just being prepared and ready. I've realized lately that I have no structure to my life. I mean, I get up and go to work, etc. but I don't have a "schedule" for shopping, cleaning, getting ready for the work week, etc. I am trying to do that now because I know it's so important to give kids that kind of structure. That's how I am trying to prepare. Posted 5/12/05 7:56 AM
Redhead	Posted by MrsProfessor Posted by Redhead But only time will tell....just trying to be as prepared as i possibly can And I think that will take away a lot of the anxiety- just being prepared and ready. I've realized lately that I have no structure to my life. I mean, I get up and go to work, etc. but I don't have a "schedule" for shopping, cleaning, getting ready for the work week, etc. I am trying to do that now because I know it's so important to give kids that kind of structure. That's how I am trying to prepare. ahhh true! Posted 5/12/05 7:59 AM
shamrock124	For me, I am not anixious about day care or the housing situaion. What scares me the most is actually being pregnant. When I really think about it, I get really nervous. I am a big believer in "things always work out" so when the time comes, you and DH will be able to settle into what is comfortable for you two. Posted 5/12/05 9:18 AM