Has anyone passed their due date yet

i am asking because mine is this month.. and i just want to know if after the due date passes, , did you feel closure at all , and although never forget...but some sort of relief??

Deanna, I'm so sorry! I did just pass one on June 6, I don't know what tell you, it was hard for me, partially b/c of the date and partially b/c a very good friend had a baby about the same time I was due, so there was a lot going on at the time, I was also dealing with the loss of my 3rd pregnancy as well. I just find that keeping myself busy helped me pass the time and deal with it. As I approach November 4, I am having a harder time than the last one. I will be in Florida for that date with my BFF, so it will be a huge distraction.

for you! it will be better, I promise.

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Posted by IrishLass

Deanna, I'm so sorry! I did just pass one on June 6, I don't know what tell you, it was hard for me, partially b/c of the date and partially b/c a very good friend had a baby about the same time I was due, so there was a lot going on at the time, I was also dealing with the loss of my 3rd pregnancy as well. I just find that keeping myself busy helped me pass the time and deal with it. As I approach November 4, I am having a harder time than the last one. I will be in Florida for that date with my BFF, so it will be a huge distraction.

for you! it will be better, I promise.

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I passed mine last year, November, and it was very difficult for me. Especially because the week I was due, my "friend" was texting me updates about HER pregnancy. We are no longer friends.

I do think it helped in the closure department, although it's still difficult.

It's weird to think that next month, i'd have a one year old.

Deanna,

I know we already spoke about this, but it does help to pass that date...like all of this...it just takes time...a lot of it.

Mine was Saturday. To be honest, I didn't think about it too much on the day - but I don't really feel any differently about it now than I did before it. Good friends of ours just had a baby this weekend and both our brothers and their wives are expecting babies within a couple of weeks. There just seem to be babies all around.

But, I'm currently in the 2ww, which I think is helping me to focus on something else.

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Posted by futuremommy

Mine was Saturday. To be honest, I didn't think about it too much on the day - but I don't really feel any differently about it now than I did before it. Good friends of ours just had a baby this weekend and both our brothers and their wives are expecting babies within a couple of weeks. There just seem to be babies all around.

But, I'm currently in the 2ww, which I think is helping me to focus on something else.

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Not yet, but I'm about 8 weeks away from it.

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Posted by neener1211

Deanna,

I know we already spoke about this, but it does help to pass that date...like all of this...it just takes time...a lot of it.

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Posted by MetsGirl07

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Posted by neener1211

Deanna,

I know we already spoke about this, but it does help to pass that date...like all of this...it just takes time...a lot of it.

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yea i hope so... think it will help me move forward more... not be totally over it of course.

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When I passed mine in Sept. 07, what made it harder was that 2 of my cousins were pg around same time as me and both went on to beautiful babies. So that just was the extra zinger I guess.

Not yet. October 23rd. But, I've been thinking about it a lot lately because I had my son 4 weeks early.

I am starting a new IVF cycle so I'm hoping that it will help me get through this month. I have a plan and I just pray it works this time. I don't know how much more of this I can go through.

I passed it in July and thought I would feel better, but I seem to have a really hard time with the anniversaries of his birth....

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Posted by Gertyrae

I passed it in July and thought I would feel better, but I seem to have a really hard time with the anniversaries of his birth....

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Mine would have been Sunday. I keep trying to tell myself not to think about it. I know I have no right to mourn because I am so fortunate to be pregnant again. Unfortunately, it still hurts.

YEah I passed mine. It was really tough. But I guess I felt some closure. But, honestly you never forget. Even now that I am pg again.. I was so sad on the anniversary of the day I got my BFP and they day I m/c'ed... I was a little insane that day.

It gets easeir but, it forever changed me and I find that I can't relax this pregnancy at all.

mine was december 14th..of last year but on that day i released 2 balloons..one pink and one blue ( i didnt know the sex). I took the day off work, it was a tough day. I promise tho..it gets easier...i still think about my little ones in heaven but i just take it as God's plan. It hurts but you learn ways to cope..it took me a long time. I will tell you tho..if you're sad..be sad..don't deny your feelings

With this last pg I lost in April, I would have been due 10/18. But I know I would have delivered at 37 weeks and should have had 2 under 2 at home right now. I thought about it so much the 2 weeks before I would have delivered but really, was so busy the day I probably would have had my c/s that I didn't get to think about it.

I think in time the thought of I should have a baby this old will always be with you. I think that I should have 3 now at home. Our son CJ should be here and 3 years old, Victoria 15 months and a newborn. My EDD was also my BFF's wedding anniversary, so I'll always remember for that reason.

I passed mine end of august and it was pretty hard-I to tried to keep busy- still hard- with two misses back to back is really the bad part- we have stopped for know and dd will be our only for now-don't think I can go again--

Message edited 10/13/2008 3:23:46 PM.