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myson220

So, last night I come home and there is a message on my machine. A very happy lady...

"Congratulations Christine on the birth of your newborn!!!!" She was calling from some photography studio to offer me a free portrait of my newborn. How wonderful. Chat Icon

A couple of weeks ago someone had called me too and left several messages. I never called back. Eventually they stopped leaving messages but I saw on my caller ID that they continued to call every day. I'm not sure if this is the same studio b/c this time the number came up private.

I'm assuming they got my name from Motherhood Maternity. When I was first pg and naseaus, I went there to buy preggo pops and I gave the girl my info for coupons. Chat Icon I've dealt with the formula coupons in the mail but this just really hurt. I tried calling them back to give them a piece of my mind but no one answered. Probably for the best. Now that I've calmed down, I'll just let it go.

 
Posted 10/1/08 9:32 AM
kahlua716

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They really shouldn't share your info with anyone- you never know what the situation could be.

 
Posted 10/1/08 9:53 AM
JennyPenny

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When I had my m/c, I was receiving formula and diaper samples up the wazoo. It felt like a cruel joke.

 
Posted 10/1/08 9:54 AM
Sneezy

It took me a while to get off the lists I got put on. I would call the studio back, just to put that at rest.

I'm sorry.

 
Posted 10/1/08 10:17 AM
MetsGirl07

that is just not right that they would call girls like this assuming that everyone had healthy babies.. Chat Icon i know i would have been so uspet too.. it just stings .. Chat Icon Chat Icon

i got in the mail like a month ago some formula.. i wanted to just cry my eyes out. Chat Icon

 
Posted 10/1/08 10:54 AM
IrishLass

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Posted 10/1/08 11:27 AM
Gertyrae

I am STILL getting stuff and/or phone calls. It's like a constant reminder.
And we removed our registries, but BRU keeps sending us things.

 
Posted 10/1/08 12:09 PM
neener1211

About 3 days after we lost our son, I got a phone call from a company congratulating me on our new baby coming, and told me about a trip that I had 'won' to use before the baby came. They had gotten my name from a show they had at Nassau Coliseum.

I told them I wasn't having a child, and I wasn't interested. They persisted in telling me that I WAS having a child, and I went off on them like a raving lunatic crying and telling them what happened. The person just replyed 'well you didn't have to be so defensive'. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I must have slammed the phone on the counter 100 times then told them off. By then I was a mess and so pi$$ed off, and of course upset.

It is probably better that you only had the messages that you can delete, although I know those are hard too.

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Message edited 10/1/2008 1:58:43 PM.

 
Posted 10/1/08 1:57 PM
daisy32

Awwww I'm so sorry you had to deal with that Chat Icon Chat Icon We need to do drinks again mama!!!!!!!! Lord knows I need it too!!!!

 
Posted 10/1/08 2:36 PM
faithann

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I know how you feel. I just got an American Baby magazine in the mail today. It's hard.

 
Posted 10/1/08 3:13 PM
QueSeraSera

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Posted 10/1/08 5:07 PM
pisces36

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Posted 10/1/08 10:33 PM
jam11308

Wow...MySon220 & Janine - that's so, SO terrible. I'm so sorry that you both had to deal with that Chat Icon Chat Icon

 
Posted 10/2/08 9:19 AM
MrsMessina

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Ugh- I'm sorry you had to deal with this. Chat Icon I foolishly signed up for weekly emails (thinking since I finally got pg- it would actually stick, since 'getting' pg was the problem Chat Icon )- I just saw a 'your belly-13 weeks' email- I get them EVERY week and EVERY week I ask to be removed!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Why can't they take me off the stupid list? I've also somehow gotten on some other list b/c I've gotten a bunch of different things in the mail (including parents magazine)Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ugh.....Chat Icon

 
Posted 10/2/08 10:20 PM
kahlua716


Posted by neener1211

About 3 days after we lost our son, I got a phone call from a company congratulating me on our new baby coming, and told me about a trip that I had 'won' to use before the baby came. They had gotten my name from a show they had at Nassau Coliseum.

I told them I wasn't having a child, and I wasn't interested. They persisted in telling me that I WAS having a child, and I went off on them like a raving lunatic crying and telling them what happened. The person just replyed 'well you didn't have to be so defensive'. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I must have slammed the phone on the counter 100 times then told them off. By then I was a mess and so pi$$ed off, and of course upset.

It is probably better that you only had the messages that you can delete, although I know those are hard too.

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Chat Icon You should've reported that person to their boss for being an insensitive pr*ck

 
Posted 10/3/08 9:51 AM
JennyPenny


Posted by MrsMessina

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Ugh- I'm sorry you had to deal with this. Chat Icon I foolishly signed up for weekly emails (thinking since I finally got pg- it would actually stick, since 'getting' pg was the problem Chat Icon )- I just saw a 'your belly-13 weeks' email- I get them EVERY week and EVERY week I ask to be removed!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




This happened to me, also. I finally just stopped checking my aol e-mail.

 
Posted 10/3/08 10:02 AM
sleepie76


Posted by MrsMessina

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Ugh- I'm sorry you had to deal with this. Chat Icon I foolishly signed up for weekly emails (thinking since I finally got pg- it would actually stick, since 'getting' pg was the problem Chat Icon )- I just saw a 'your belly-13 weeks' email- I get them EVERY week and EVERY week I ask to be removed!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Why can't they take me off the stupid list? I've also somehow gotten on some other list b/c I've gotten a bunch of different things in the mail (including parents magazine)Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ugh.....Chat Icon



Yeah, I still get weekly emails from learning curve updating me on baby stuff and pregnancy.
I asked to be removed a bunch of times, I finally assigned them to the junk folder.

 
Posted 10/3/08 11:04 AM
michey1217

I just keep getting diaper coupons, portrait coupons and formula coupons in the mail, like everyday! DH keeps asking why are they sedning you this stuff! I feel like saying b/c I'm a dumba** and signed up on some website and they never took me off! Chat Icon Oh, and I also get weekly progress reports on my fromer pregnancy.. yeah, real nice when I asked to be taken off the list the day I had my D&C!! Some people/companies just don't get it!

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Posted 10/5/08 8:42 AM
luvsbob4603

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Posted 10/5/08 10:32 PM