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anyone else taking a break?

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Lizzy	I know this month is going to be hard for you. Lean on us and let us help you You are a strong, strong woman and I think you are brave beyond measure. I'm here if you need me. Posted 9/29/08 4:29 PM
when	ugh... I am sure this will indeed be a hard month for you. I wish I had something to say to make you feel better. Posted 9/29/08 5:35 PM
sleepie76	I know you will be fine- but it's sometimes hard to see that in the midst of it all. I think that BDing casually for a few months will do wonders for your emotional health- instead of obsessing over it. If nothing comes of that- then stat fresh in January- see an RE, just make the appointment soon so you have it in place already. Then just go with the flow and hope that you'll be able to cancel that appointment. The year will be over before you know it- and then we can all start fresh again. I think this is a great idea! 3 months probably sounds like forever to take off, but believe it or not it goes fast. especially when you aren't living it in 2 week increments. And TTC is all about BDing, which you would still be doing. Just on your own schedule. During my break we did things for us. Bought an inground pool and enjoyed the summer. I started weight watchers and going to the gym, I've lost 16 lbs since my miscarriage!!! Just in time for my vacation . We have one last trip to aruba next week and then the 9 months of US is over. I just wanted to share with you what worked for me. I'm not saying you should definately take a break, just sharing my experiences. Good Luck Hon! Posted 9/30/08 7:56 AM
mom2mgn	My situation is a little different b/c we have to do IVF to get pg. I waited a couple of months after the m/c before we tried again. We failed in June and I needed another break. Now that October is here, bad month for me too, I need to be proactive and keep busy. So, I called my RE's office today to get the ball rolling. I will start my BCP's this month and do another cycle in November! For me and my situation, I can't be at the day and not have something happening. My break is over. We'll all get through this together. It sounds like a lot of us were due in October. Posted 9/30/08 3:36 PM
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