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MetsGirl07

after your loss... how long did it take you to get pregnant?

 
Posted 9/17/08 2:01 PM
neener1211

I know I've told you, but it was the very next month after the first AF. I disregarded what the doctors 'suggested' because I just could not bear to wait.

 
Posted 9/17/08 2:06 PM
Blissful

I was told to wait 3 cycles before trying again to let my body heal and unterine lininng build up again.

I ended up taking 5 months off to heal emotionally. I didn't want to go into another pregnancy terrified of every little thing.........

I did a lot of exercising, and diet changes for both DH and I to get healthy and try to conceive on the most optimal conditins and we got pregnant our first month trying.......

 
Posted 9/17/08 2:06 PM
stayandjohn

I had 2 miscarriages, one in Feb 07, followed again in april 07. I then had a chemical in Aug 07. I became pregnant again in Jan 08

 
Posted 9/17/08 2:07 PM
CkGm


Posted by neener1211

I know I've told you, but it was the very next month after the first AF. I disregarded what the doctors 'suggested' because I just could not bear to wait.



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Posted 9/17/08 2:11 PM
MetsGirl07

yea see my doctor also told me 3 months.. and of course i didnt listen either.. but still nothing.. Chat Icon

i did get myself checked out 2 months after the loss. and he said everything looked perfect and i healed well... so i am just puzzled i guess.

 
Posted 9/17/08 2:13 PM
secretbabymaker

after my period came back it took 4 months

 
Posted 9/17/08 2:21 PM
WhitneyL

After the D&C my doc told me to wait 2 cycles before trying again. We waited one, and i got AF exactly 28 days after the procedure.
We weren't "trying", but weren't careful during the second cycle and I got AF @ 27 days. We got pregnant on the next (3rd) cycle after the MC.

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Posted 9/17/08 2:22 PM
MommyAgain

i had a MC before my DS was born, at 14 1/2 weeks, and my old OB never really got to the bottom of why it happened..i was told to wait 3 cycles, and we didnt, i lost my first child on thanksgiving and was pregnant with my DS by January, having only one cycle in December...
Please keep your head up ladies, this board is such a good thing, women need to be able to come somewhere to talk about this, especially when you always hear "it just wasnt meant to be" that was the WORST line for me..
Miracles happen every single day, it took me TEN YEARS to have my second chance, and a battle with gynocological cancer that was supposed to leave me at 31 with a hystorectomy..
MIRACLES HAPPEN, PLEASE BELIEVE IN THEM!
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good luck all of you :)

 
Posted 9/17/08 2:35 PM
MrsRbk

My situation was a little different since I can't get pregnant naturally to begin with. I was able to start back on my IVF meds as soon as my beta was below 5 - which it took 4 weeks to happen to begin with. I was pregnant just about exactly 8 weeks from my first BFP. But again, was through IVF.

 
Posted 9/17/08 3:09 PM
Lucky09

3 cycles. My Dr. said to wait one cycle. I would say it took me 3 months though to feel "ready" to be pregnant again. Although I am still a nervous wreck at 16.5 weeks.

The strange thing is, is that I am due one day before the 1 year anniversary of my D&C. (Due: 2/28/09, D&C 2/29/08).

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Posted 9/17/08 3:14 PM
SweetTooth

I got my period 5 weeks later. We tried again that cycle and were successful.

 
Posted 9/17/08 3:16 PM
sweetbabydreams

It took me almost 5 months after my MC and that was with the help of RE. Who knows how long it would have taken if i hadnt seeked help!

 
Posted 9/17/08 3:43 PM
nicknmb

with the help of an RE - just 2 months....I needed help and also felt better under the constant care of a specialist. It also helped once I got pregnant to have weekly sono's and bloodwork from weeks 5-8. It was very reassuring to see the little peanut growing.

 
Posted 9/17/08 4:02 PM
MrsFlatbread

3 weeks..I never got AF after the miscarriage

 
Posted 9/17/08 4:15 PM
Goldi0218

After my chemical, I skipped a month and then got PG two months later. I had another m/c, skipped a month, had another failed IUI and then got PG the following month. Now I have a beautiful daughter.

Keep the faith ladies. It is worth EVERY minute of energy and time you give it. I look at Abby and I see a miracle. You will have yours too.Chat Icon

 
Posted 9/17/08 8:57 PM
Dani922

I got pregnant the 5th cycle after my miscarriage. It was particularly frustrating because my first pregnancy was an "oops" & the second (the m/c) only took 2 months.

 
Posted 9/18/08 6:21 PM
autumn


Posted by secretbabymaker

after my period came back it took 4 months

The same for one of my sisters. My other sister decided she won't try again for another year year and a half.

 
Posted 9/19/08 1:04 PM
angnick

My very good friend miscarried at 6 weeks. it took her 6 months more to conceive, but she had to wait 3 months (cycles) after her miscarriage.

 
Posted 9/19/08 4:09 PM
sfp0701

still trying exactly a year later. Chat Icon

 
Posted 9/19/08 6:18 PM
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