Thus far (marriage Q)

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Where did this come from???

Why

Sorry guys, my fault. I was looking for a post I wanted to edit and accidentally hit "post reply" instead of "edit post".

Not much changed for us since we married. We have been together for so long. The only thing that has been a little bit of struggle is about TTC. I thought I was ready, then I wasn't. He is ready (sort of) but I am like "no way!"

My husband's obsessions.

sharing house work, learning to live together

COMPROMISE. cant just do something any more cause i want to.

What the heck...

household chores. DH and i work the same job, make the same amount of money, have virtually the same extent of a sucky commute. yet, i am to clean the house, do the laundry, food shopping, errand running, cooking, walking the dog on my own - as well as straighten up after him because he can't seem to manage that. it kills me and we argue about it a lot. that's the worst for me.

this is so old...but i'll play!!!

the hardest thing has so far been having to deal with IL's. my parents want to see us all the time and so do DH's and its so frustrating because we just want to be home alone and finally enjoy married life and our little family! its hard to please everyone!

Having to answer to another person.

Realizing that it's "our" money. I have a hard time with this because DH makes so much more than I do, and I feel like I should be contributing just as much but it is not possible. DH tells me to knock it off because his money is my money. But I just don't feel like it yet!!

I would have to say communicating about money.

We lived togehter for several years before marriage so being married, theres no hardest part.. but its probably the same thing as usual.. the household chores. I feel like he doesn't care if things are out of order, and I like things really neat.

Dealing with his famiily, we dont get along.

and

money.

for me I would have to say that compromising was the hardest thing, so far. we both lived on our own for a long time before we moved in together. DH is very easy going, so it was more of an adjustment for me.

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Posted by tourist

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Posted by curley999

Dealing with the inlaws and trying to find a balance to how much of our limited free time we need to spend visiting them!

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That one!

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omg! I thought RED was back when I saw this post. BUGGIN!!!