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Redhead

What have you felt to be the hardest part of marriage?




* and to those whose life is perfect for....need not answer as such Chat Icon

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:21 AM
KittyCat

I have to say the MIL !!!!!!!!! Can't handle it.

and compromising - I am set in my ways !!!Chat Icon

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:39 AM
dm24angel

sharing money.

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:40 AM
Scotty-CassidysMom

I would definately say $$$

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:41 AM
Redhead

sharing the household chores is sadly the most annoying aspect for me

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:43 AM
DebG

money
money
and ooh yeah, money

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:44 AM
baghag

Compromising, definitely.

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:45 AM
GenLCSW


Posted by baghag

Compromising, definitely.



I agree!

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:46 AM
Redhead


Posted by baghag

Compromising, definitely.


yes that too Chat Icon

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:47 AM
jcbrownie

I would say having him help out more around the house. We both work yet I seem to do absolutely everything around the house.

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:47 AM
baghag

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Message edited 3/14/2007 11:07:08 AM.

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:54 AM
BabyAvocado

1st is money issues
2nd is household chores

 
Posted 11/21/05 8:56 AM
MamaNDaddyof3

well we dont argue about money
but DH can be moody for no reason and that ANNOYS the crap out of me

 
Posted 11/21/05 9:02 AM
nov04libride


Posted by BabyAvocado

1st is money issues
2nd is household chores



Here too. I'd say compromising and sharing time between the families as well--we wind up seeing his family a great deal more than my own.

 
Posted 11/21/05 9:02 AM
Lichi


Posted by Redhead
sharing the household chores is sadly the most annoying aspect for me

Definitely! Men don't have that same mentality as us. And the worst part is that no one pulls their weight around the house, it reflects badly on the WIFE, not the husband! Chat Icon Chat Icon

 
Posted 11/21/05 9:09 AM
Elbee

1. Division of Household Chores
2. Dealing with his Sleep Apnea

We've transitioned smoothly in the money area, we share everything, and have the same goals when it comes to spending and saving. I really can't complain.

The next issue will be sharing one car Chat Icon He wants to try it, I am totally against it. I think we need 2 cars!

 
Posted 11/21/05 9:10 AM
Redhead


Posted by Lichi


Posted by Redhead
sharing the household chores is sadly the most annoying aspect for me

Definitely! Men don't have that same mentality as us. And the worst part is that no one pulls their weight around the house, it reflects badly on the WIFE, not the husband! Chat Icon Chat Icon


i have to say i agree

 
Posted 11/21/05 9:11 AM
casey31


Posted by Redhead


Posted by Lichi


Posted by Redhead
sharing the household chores is sadly the most annoying aspect for me

Definitely! Men don't have that same mentality as us. And the worst part is that no one pulls their weight around the house, it reflects badly on the WIFE, not the husband! Chat Icon Chat Icon


i have to say i agree



I agree- household chored is the hardest part. He just doesn't seem to mind if things are messy and it drives me crazy!! Chat Icon

 
Posted 11/21/05 9:17 AM
Ali1

Really the only issue for us is getting things done in the house. DH is a procrastinator, i tend not to be. So i get bothered when i ask him to do something and he says he will get to it.

 
Posted 11/21/05 9:17 AM
Aga

I hate it when he decides on things like when or where we will go out without asking me, invite people without me knowing about it, stuff like that annoy me the most...

 
Posted 11/21/05 9:28 AM
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