Cracking The Penal Code: What Men Really Think

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By Mia Bolaris-Forget

With all the effort we ladies put into everything, including the though behind it, I am often amazed that most of what I find important, my guy friends and my husband often find trivial.

In fact, while we get alone, and can reach a comfortable “compromise” or “consensus” its rare, that we “agree”. And, it’s not unlikely that we are left looking at each other wondering what the other is thinking.

Well, for those of you who’ve been wondering what’s on your guys mind, other than sex, here are a few interesting insights.

1. Optical Illusions: Regardless of old wives tales, guys “do” like girls with glasses and often make passes at them. In fact, it creates mystery and the impression of intelligence and a high-powered position and a nice flair of independence.

2. Guys Like “Shiny” Objects Too: Specifically lip-gloss. In fact, the glossier the better, noting that it’s the ideal way to look sexy “au naturale” and without putting on any makeup, which most guys hate to kiss anyway.

3. Glamorous “Gift Wrapping”: Yes, it’s not likely to stay on for too long, but regardless of what we think, men like lingerie. In fact, they suggest that part of the “present” is the “packaging”; sort of like the tissue paper we ladies love to place in presents.

4. Busts are a “bust”: That’s right!!!! While men like to be teased, they also like to be seduced. So, while it may pay to advertise, they suggest that you want to keep something covered. It only helps ignite imagination, intensity and desire.

5. Go Ahead Be A Heel: Men give two thumbs up to heel noting that they add elegance, sophistication and sexiness to a woman’s stature, posture and demeanor. Just be careful not to go “too” high and look well, we won’t go there, or to choose heels that place you head and shoulders above your mate, it just may be intimidating.

6. Moodiful Boudoir: Honestly, they may occasionally appreciate it, but men generally couldn’t care less about the thread count of the sheets, or about the bed skirt and comforter. And, they’d rather do without all those throw pillows. After all, if you’re not going to throw them, then what’s their purpose?