The Semantics OF Sexy: Improving You Personal Sex Appeal

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By Mia Bolaris-Forget

With life and lifestyles being so hectic its easy for gals and guys, though mostly gals to get caught up in the “must dos” and lose site of the “would like to dos” and that often translates into routine and complacency and losing our former selves. Sure, we may want to let go of our “youthful” and “crazy” ways, but experts suggest that we do so only “partially”. In fact, they say maintaining a spirit of fun and frivolity is essential to keeping us young and sexy. And feeling young and sexy can do wonders for your self image, relationship(s) and your marriage.

But, if you’re finding yourself short on time to release your inner vixen, dare to spare a moment or two (literally) or a few and unleash the diva within you.

· Put some sexy thoughts in his head with a quick spritz of your signature scent on his shirt or pillow or other “personals”.

· Trade in the hose for thigh highs or nothing at all

· Give him a tap on the tusch

· Slip into your sexy jeans

· Slip out of your sneakers and into your stilettos

· Rather than holding his hand, consider slipping you hand into his rear pocket.

· Give him a “come-hither” look.

· Cross your legs and give your skirt an extra little hike

· Flatter yourself by making eye contact with a cute stranger.

· Then, send YOUR sweetie a sweet of sensual text message.

· Learn a few sexy French phrases you can whisper to him, even at work.

· Surprise him with a seductive kiss or wake him up with some sweet but “seductive” kisses.

· Corner him in an elevator.

· Surprise him by joining him in the shower.

· Opt for lace rather than cotton undies and bra.

· Walk the walk by pushing shoulder back, standing straight and () a little hip action.

· Turn his inner thigh into an “arm” rest while dinning or driving.

· Indulge yourself or each other to a relaxing massage.

· Do housework in something sexy

· Rather than going out to dinner settle in at a jazz lounge and indulge in some wine and fondue

· Turn down the heat or turn up the AC and snuggle up on the couch with a good book, movie and some wine and let the closeness take its course.

· Write him a sexy letter or love poem

· Treat yourself and you mate to a candlelit bubble bath and a glass of bubbly to boot.

· Treat him to a foot massage and pedicure either personal or professional.

· Take a cardio strip-tease glass and surprise your man with your new moves.

· Do exciting things together and apart. You’ll have something to share AND something to talk about and it will make each of your “more interesting” in each other’s eyes.