The Baby Network: How Networking Can Make “Parenting” Easier

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By Mia Bolaris-Forget

Even moms and dads want some time alone, and away from the kiddies. But, most don’t often get it, and it’s all a matter of child care or lack thereof. Still, being an “individual” and/or couple is possible, at least according to women who’ve been there, done that. Here’s what they suggest,

· Connect with others on your block or immediate area/school district who have kids the same age as you, who you like (or can at least tolerate) and who you can trust, and take turns caring for each other’s offspring.

· Look for a daycare with evening hours for those nights you need to get out but have no one to take care of the kids. Sure you can always get a last-minute babysitter, but moms suggest evening day cares may cost less, at least if you only plan on being out for a few hour. Plus, it’s likely the staff will be more mature and more professional too.

· Remember, the best last-minute babysitters are often friends and family, especially if you don’t ask that often. Friends will likely not mind doing you a favour, especially if they have kids around the same age, and parents/grandparents likely look forward to some extra bonding time with the grandkids.

· Find out if your local church, place of worship or community center (obviously one that you’re familiar with and is reputable) have or offer sitting services, even if only on certain nights. You could leave your kids here and take advantage of this “classic example” of community service.

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